Conflict Transformation and Safe Community Development Workshop
Montreal Korean United Church, Saturday, November 2, 2024
The Conflict Transformation Workshop is a practical program designed to help participants turn conflicts into opportunities for growth.
Conflict is a natural part of life. Each individual holds unique perspectives, values, preferences, and attitudes toward life’s challenges. However, conflicts in close relationships—whether between spouses, children, couples, or colleagues—can often lead to worry, anxiety, and emotional stress. As a result, we tend to view conflict negatively and try to avoid it. This workshop offers a new perspective and practical methods to transform conflict into an opportunity for strengthening relationships.
Participants will learn about different conflict response styles, analyze their own patterns and approaches to conflict, and practice skills such as active listening and nonviolent communication.
The Conflict Transformation Workshop was held at Montreal Korean United Church on Saturday, November 2, from 10:00 AM to 5:00 PM.
Feedback from Conflict Transformation Workshop Participants
I gained a deeper understanding of conflict, its causes, and found comfort and clarity about myself. The practical strategies for conflict transformation, shared insights during discussions, and the variety of perspectives were incredibly valuable.
I came to understand my family better and experienced a shift in how I view conflict. I realized that conflict, depending on how we approach it, can be an opportunity for growth and positive change.
I used to see conflict as something purely negative and to be avoided, but now I view it as the start of transformation. Learning how to approach conflict differently, understanding the concept of the “Red Button,” separating the issue from the person, and using “I-messages” were especially helpful.
When I first heard about the workshop, I thought it was exactly the kind of discussion our community needed. As immigrants, we often face challenges related to family and parenting, and I wanted to explore these issues. I’ve always struggled with how to resolve conflicts within my family, but now I feel like I have some clear starting points.
I came without any specific expectations but found the experience deeply meaningful. It gave me a chance to reflect on myself. I appreciated analyzing the root causes of conflict and understanding its core nature. It was also valuable to think about the importance of safety and respect in relationships.
I came wondering if I could find ways to resolve the conflicts I’m facing. I learned that conflict resolution doesn’t have to be complicated—nonviolent communication and active listening alone can make a big difference. I’m grateful for the realization that “conflict is a process of growth.”
I reflected on whether I might be contributing to conflicts in my personal, family, or organizational relationships. I wanted to learn how to identify and address these patterns, and this workshop provided the tools I needed. I also appreciated the positive perspective on conflict, which is often seen only as negative. Hearing that “it’s okay to have conflict” at the start of the workshop was incredibly healing for me.
I wondered if this workshop could help resolve conflicts with my child, and it exceeded my expectations. I’m planning to try new ways of approaching and communicating with my child. The discussions about the direction our church community should take, areas for improvement, and how to act as God’s children were also very insightful.
I joined because I thought the workshop could help with issues that everyone faces. It was a valuable time to share our thoughts and concerns and to listen to one another.
After attending the workshop, I had the opportunity to understand and reflect on methods for transforming conflict. I especially appreciated learning how to use “I-messages” in conflicts with my children or others.
I came hoping to gain tips for resolving conflicts with my children and fostering a healthier church community, and the workshop delivered beyond my expectations. I now have a better understanding of what our church community seeks and feel equipped to use “I-messages” to turn conflicts into opportunities for growth.
Before the workshop, I expected to experience fellowship and mutual understanding. After participating, I came away with foundational and essential keywords for resolving conflicts.
I’ve been reflecting on how to build a safe church community, and this workshop provided practical guidance: active listening, offering praise, showing recognition, and showing genuine care. The most impactful part for me was the concept of “speaking the language of love.”
I wanted to think more about what defines a healthy and safe community and what our church should strive for. I also needed solutions for understanding my adolescent child and managing frequent conflicts. The workshop gave me new approaches to conflict and practical ways to apply “I-messages.”
The workshop covered a wide range of valuable topics, including creating safe communities, improving relationships with children and parents, and strengthening marital bonds. The content was so good that I wished it had been divided into multiple sessions to dive deeper into each area.